mickdog ([info]mickdog) wrote,
@ 2009-04-06 20:17:00
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Question for my Jewish Friends
{Whenever I say that I always think of that 1980s PSA about the little boy being prejudiced because he refers to a boy as his "Jewish friend" not just a friend. I tried to find it on the web but got shot down on one site for for terms of service violation - any help digging up that gem is appreciated.}

Anyway, our doorbell just rang. My wife made me get up (to say no to any solicitors - she's a softy). I opened the door and no one was there. However, there was a plate of cookies on the porch. I started to bend down to pick them up and called for my son who was heading for bed. Just then my neighbor, whose family is Jewish and has a daughter my son's age, pops out from behind our bush at the side of the house and says "Its a secret!" and runs off smiling.

I say, "oookay" and get my son, show him and tell him it came from someone in the neighborhood, but it is a secret. He of course loves this and while he eats a cookie, he tries to pump me for more information as does my wife. I am stoic. Later I tell my wife and we both wonder if this has something to do with Passover, but a quick persual of the web turns up no gift giving traditions. So the theories at my house are:

1) Passover related gift giving
2) Had to get the "leavened" chametz out of the house before Passover and we were the lucky reciepients.
3) They just like us and like secrets.


I'm assuming 2) but am open for other interpretations.







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[info]ronsrants
2009-04-07 03:54 am UTC (link)
Are they particularly religious? If so, then #2. I've never practiced that. As far as I know, there is no significance to the hiding behind a bush.

-R

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 03:57 am UTC (link)
They are more practicing than other Jews I know in my circle, but not extremely strict.

Burning a bush, yes. Hiding behind a bush, no. :)

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[info]stevecohen
2009-04-07 02:19 pm UTC (link)
I sort-of agree with Ron on #2. The religious do also clean their homes of chametz, of course, but they "sell" it to someone for a token amount and buy it back after the holiday. Before you get too excited about imagining people in traditional garb going to the neighbor with a box, the transaction tends to take place with promissory notes in both directions. A web search will turn up any number of sites offering such "services".

So, in fact, I expect your neighbor to be less "religious" by having taken part in the tradition of ridding his home of chametz by, you know, actually getting rid of it.

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 04:09 am UTC (link)
btw, the cookies are good. I've had four, with some decaf. I'm stopping now....

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[info]dmorr
2009-04-07 04:35 am UTC (link)
I'm not jewish but my wife and son are. The only religious explanation is #2. Possibly there are other explanations, though. Not knowing any of the people in question, I'd take the field over #2.

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[info]ts4z
2009-04-07 06:22 am UTC (link)
If your son is already baking cookies, can I buy a piece of him for any future poker tournaments?

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 03:15 pm UTC (link)
You are right there are other possible explanations. The part that is weird is that they aren't close friends, just neighbors that we see once or twice a week their front yard, and occasionally our kids play together outside. No play dates, no close relationships otherwise.

So while they are very nice people and I like them a lot, sending us cookies (or any gift) is not something that has happened before.

That was why Passover first popped in my head, seemed like a likely connection. I'll ask her the next time I see her, to get to the bottom of this.

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[info]evwhore
2009-04-07 05:20 am UTC (link)
It's a metaphor for today's Internet. By naively accepting their cookies you have enabled them to exploit your personal information and media browsing habits for their own gain.

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 02:56 pm UTC (link)
I don't have your Scottro (by proxy) comment of the day logo, but if I did you would see it to the left. Hilarious!

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[info]caged_ape
2009-04-07 07:24 am UTC (link)
Did any of you see any wild colors after eating? They may be of 'another' religion. :-)

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 02:57 pm UTC (link)
I did not. Being in Portland, I do have other neighbors where this may be a concern!

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[info]jellymillion
2009-04-07 07:32 am UTC (link)
Don't look a gift cookie in the mouth. Or the cookie equivalent thereof.

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[info]schmengie
2009-04-07 11:02 am UTC (link)
like your other jewish friends, i have never heard of this but my guess is #2 as well.
if you happen to be in Tampa on Thursday feel free to join us for our seder...[info]stevecohen will be there as well...

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[info]stevecohen
2009-04-07 02:12 pm UTC (link)
It's definitely three Cohens a Fishler and a doofus.

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[info]mickdog
2009-04-07 02:55 pm UTC (link)
I wish I could be there. I've only been to one other seder in my life, and it was a lot of fun.

Is poker allowed after dinner? :)

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[info]schmengie
2009-04-07 03:54 pm UTC (link)
me and steve played heads up poker at my sons bar mitzvah so i dont see why not

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[info]rcfox
2009-04-07 02:00 pm UTC (link)
I can only think of #2, but I've never seen that among my friends.

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[info]allknight
2009-04-07 05:43 pm UTC (link)
Although I am now a non-practicing Jew I think there might be even a more credible explanation for this event. The neighbor girl has a crush on your son! 8^0

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[info]gunga_galunga
2009-04-08 04:21 am UTC (link)
lol. That was exactly my thought too.

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